A Happy New Year is QUICKLY Approaching !
2013 is quickly drawing to a close...and what it afforded us will soon be memories...some of them good and some not so good!
As we enter 2014, and we vow to make it a better year...
Success advocates will be reminding you of how important it is not to carry any baggage from the past into it...or...
Is it?
Should we carry that past baggage into next year?
This thought is intriguing!
I like seeing through the fluff of the "snake oil" sales people...
This may be one of those things in which they are selling you what you want to hear rather than what you need to hear!
Let's listen to what we need to hear before it is too late!
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When combined with our tradition of New Year's Resolutions, it makes me think that there may be some worthwhile baggage that we need to carry...
Although you may not believe it...
Our the broken promises, resolutions...AND our failures!
That sounds pretty depressing and those experts who are trying to sell you a success placebo will argue!
Let's look at the facts!
Successful individuals do not quit trying...they do not give up on those things that they know are right...
They persist until they achieve what they envision...
With ongoing persistence...they resolve to improve their lot in life and set goals...
They know their mission and align tasks to them...
Some of these goals may not be achievable...on the first go around...but they do not quit!
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Take a moment to reflect on the resolutions of the past...
Especially those resolutions that you failed to accomplish...
I am amused by people who...when creating their list of resolutions...exclude those that they failed on in the past...
"I tried that one...not going to do that again"
Nothing worth having comes easily...
Perhaps...you already have a list of resolutions...
It is simply those that you failed to achieve in the past!
I know that my list...if it consists only of my past failures...would be longer than any list that I could generate in the few remaining hours of this year!
Why not resolve to achieve your past failures!
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I was listening to an interview with a high school football coach that said...
"The Pro-Bowl performances are created at half-time!"
Half-Time is an interesting concept...
The first half of the game is played and then everyone leaves the field and licks their wounds and re-energizes or admits defeat!
The coach has assessed the opposition for their weaknesses and adjusts the plan...
Half-Time is a time for rest...
We are given many Half-Times...New Year's is an official Half-Time!
Are you licking your wounds?
Are you going to admit defeat?
Have you assessed your opponent?
Have you resolved to win?
Are you going to change your plays?
2013 had some weaknesses...
There are holes in the defensive line...
2014 is in a locker room too!
It is a "bully" team...playing with dirty tactics...
Make no mistake...It is planning how it is going to beat you!
It has as much to win as you have losing!
You will never defeat it unless you learn for the first half...
That baggage that I referenced is important to success...
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As you resolve...
Look at your past failures in a different perspective...
I can almost hear you saying...
"That was a great resolution...this year I am going to do it!"
Just because you missed the pass the last time you tried that play...doesn't mean that it didn't have the potential of a touchdown!
If every failed play in football was never repeated...there ultimately would be no plays...
If people never tried and tried again...
You get the picture...
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Happy New Year!
Resolve to not repeat the failures of the past...
Not by failing at what you attempt...but
By succeeding at what you tried and failed at!
There is open field between you and the goal line!
Catch the ball this time and run like the wind!
Pura Vida
2013 is quickly drawing to a close...and what it afforded us will soon be memories...some of them good and some not so good!
As we enter 2014, and we vow to make it a better year...
Success advocates will be reminding you of how important it is not to carry any baggage from the past into it...or...
Is it?
Should we carry that past baggage into next year?
This thought is intriguing!
I like seeing through the fluff of the "snake oil" sales people...
This may be one of those things in which they are selling you what you want to hear rather than what you need to hear!
Let's listen to what we need to hear before it is too late!
******************************************
When combined with our tradition of New Year's Resolutions, it makes me think that there may be some worthwhile baggage that we need to carry...
Although you may not believe it...
Our the broken promises, resolutions...AND our failures!
That sounds pretty depressing and those experts who are trying to sell you a success placebo will argue!
Let's look at the facts!
Successful individuals do not quit trying...they do not give up on those things that they know are right...
They persist until they achieve what they envision...
With ongoing persistence...they resolve to improve their lot in life and set goals...
They know their mission and align tasks to them...
Some of these goals may not be achievable...on the first go around...but they do not quit!
*******************************************
Take a moment to reflect on the resolutions of the past...
Especially those resolutions that you failed to accomplish...
I am amused by people who...when creating their list of resolutions...exclude those that they failed on in the past...
"I tried that one...not going to do that again"
Nothing worth having comes easily...
Perhaps...you already have a list of resolutions...
It is simply those that you failed to achieve in the past!
I know that my list...if it consists only of my past failures...would be longer than any list that I could generate in the few remaining hours of this year!
Why not resolve to achieve your past failures!
******************************************
I was listening to an interview with a high school football coach that said...
"The Pro-Bowl performances are created at half-time!"
Half-Time is an interesting concept...
The first half of the game is played and then everyone leaves the field and licks their wounds and re-energizes or admits defeat!
The coach has assessed the opposition for their weaknesses and adjusts the plan...
Half-Time is a time for rest...
We are given many Half-Times...New Year's is an official Half-Time!
Are you licking your wounds?
Are you going to admit defeat?
Have you assessed your opponent?
Have you resolved to win?
Are you going to change your plays?
2013 had some weaknesses...
There are holes in the defensive line...
2014 is in a locker room too!
It is a "bully" team...playing with dirty tactics...
Make no mistake...It is planning how it is going to beat you!
It has as much to win as you have losing!
You will never defeat it unless you learn for the first half...
That baggage that I referenced is important to success...
********************************************
As you resolve...
Look at your past failures in a different perspective...
I can almost hear you saying...
"That was a great resolution...this year I am going to do it!"
Just because you missed the pass the last time you tried that play...doesn't mean that it didn't have the potential of a touchdown!
If every failed play in football was never repeated...there ultimately would be no plays...
If people never tried and tried again...
You get the picture...
*********************************************
Happy New Year!
Resolve to not repeat the failures of the past...
Not by failing at what you attempt...but
By succeeding at what you tried and failed at!
There is open field between you and the goal line!
Catch the ball this time and run like the wind!
Pura Vida
